Create your own style or this might happen?

The more you come to peer pressure the more you will change to not being the person you were born to be.

Unless you like how they're changing you and feel it will help your life don't feel the need to change your look dramatically to fit in.

True friends will enjoy your company and let you come into their social group however you are.

If you aren't yourself as much as you can be you might miss out on people loving the true you. Or they say they love you e.g. in a relationship and down the line you're dumped when you're true you comes forward,

 as you're more comfortable around them.

Are wrap tops becoming the new smart trend?

These tops are really elegant and I figured I show you all how you can wear them. I've been seeing a lot of celebrities on TV adverts wearing them recently and they all look very well put together. Admittedly they have stylists to help them and they probably are versions on wrap tops that cost thousands.. However, if you read on you'll discover how you can look posh and elegant yourself without spending a lot of money.

First off here are a few celebs sporting these tops:

Jennifer Lopez

Emma Watson

Holly Willoughby

How I'd wear the top find it here: 

How you can wear these gorgeous tops/blouses:

This link takes you to a how to wear drape top polyvore set where you can find cute places to buy the tops.

(plus the clothing featured in my style picture).

http://www.polyvore.com/drape_top_styling/set?id=116684168

If you're worried about exposing your chest to the world you can put a vest top underneath. 

Putting these tops in your wardrobe will mean you have a staple item that will go with anything. From jeans,pencil skirt to shorts will all look great with the drape top. 

They would work for any occasion from in the office to at a party to even on holiday down on the beach. 

To me they're the most versatile top out there to rock up this spring in shops everywhere.

  

being shy..help..annoyance of life.

(my own creation ^^^right  there)

I'm sick of people who are more shy than others bring left out and often picked on. It's hard being shy and wanting to say something. However, thinking what you have to say is going to be thought of as weird or not listened too as you're quiet.

This is my way of saying try and talk to the shy person at school or work. Include them...like if you are having a party don't leave the shy one out as you think they are boring/wont join in.  They mostly need reassurance and to be excepted for themselves to feel more confident.

If you are an extrovert person you are lucky. Being introverted isn't as easy as you think.

I should know. As I am one of those quiet shy people who hide away in the corner feeling like I don't fit in as well as the others.

If you are shy....JUST TRY. Include yourself and if people dislike you for any reason many out there wont. The more you talk to others the more likely, it is one step to not being shy or as shy anymore.Don't hide in the corner or where ever you feel safe. Take a risk.

A lot of  shy people are shy because of fear of being judge or because of the negative reactions from those around them. Or the people they are put with are much louder and out talk the shyer quieter member of the group. e.g. when they do talk they're unheard or talked over. 

It puts the quieter people in a hole. Singles them out as different or often gets them forgotten. 

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SMILE have a nice day and don't reject someone because they are different. Embrace the difference.

'Handy' Jewelry

Jewelry made out of recycled dolls is what we have here. As seen the picture to the left, you might think this is cool however, I think this creepy. No offense! :)

Okay, okay, maybe you can agree with me here. They are creepy. Well, would you like to have those hands dangling near your neck? It almost seems like they are ready to choke you. Scary indeed.

Again, I am not chicken! I just wanted to state that these are not found in every store and are not the current trend but as you can see, someone decided to have some fun and cut dolls apart so we can wear them. Maybe I am sounding too dramatic right now. Oh well!

If you are into this kind of fashion, please do not be scared to state why you like them so much! Don't be shy! If you could, please tell us what would look best with this type of jewelry. Like, a modern look. We love your comments.

You can find other doll parts made into recycled jewelry pieces if you look on Google. The example to the left is a bracelet. It has that modern look to it with the metal in the middle but the hands give it some more unique looks? I don't know. I am just trying to stay honest here! Again, no offense if you like this kind of jewelry. It is unique, I can admit! Very unique! I love recycled fashions. Someone just had this idea and turned into something different and there is nothing wrong with that.

Unique indeed! These pieces of jewelry must be the 'attention-getters!'

If you wish to share your thoughts about these bracelets, please share below! Thank you! :)

Love Advice -to have a good relationship

 My valentine day card I made my boyfriend.

Basically draw a large heart in the middle of the card and fill it with different paper cut out heart shapes. You can sew on the heart crosses for kisses. Then add different shape/size hearts for a stylish effect.

Now on to the Love Advice to have a good relationship:

Quotes of love advice:

~It isn't about having a perfect relationship. It’s about finding someone who will be there through everything without giving up.

~Love is complicated. Every relationship is different. Do whats best for you, not what people tell you to do. You're the one that has to live with or without it.

~If you love someone, be brave enough to tell them, otherwise, be brave enough to watch them be loved by someone else.

~Be with those who bring out the best in you, not the stress in you.

~Be with someone who wants you as much as you want them, love should always be equally divided between two hearts to make one whole relationship.

My sum up of what the quotes mean in my opinion:

No relationship is going to be amazing fairy tale love every moment of the time. But, finding a partner who wont give up on you when life has it's troubling moments, that is how you know they care and want to be there for you and not another factor like money.

You don't have to do what you're told to be happy by family and others but what you feel would improve the welfare of your life. One relationship might like be really lovey dovey and romantic every moment they get and another might enjoy hanging out more as friends going on adventures together.

In the begining of knowing you have a crush you got to tell them otherwise you're going to be unable to ask them out. e.g. they get another bf/gf or they move out the area far away.

To top it off you've got to find a person to date who you fell you can be 100% you with. One who compliments you and is proud of your achievements...you need to do that to who you're going out with too. Be supportive, complimentary and be there when they're sad.

Love shouldn't be about who's better or who love who the most. Equal, honest and compromising to fit both needs of the partnership. You don't want to get your way all the time. e.g. don't pick where to go out every time, or what to eat for dinner. Take it turns..

Above all be loyal and honest about your life and feelings. That's the key to being happy in a relationship.

I also find having a partner who has common interest helpful too. Gives you things to talk about.

Follow this and avoid drama.

Basically what he is saying in the quote is that shouting at someone will not help get your point across. It would only make the situation worse. However, changing the words that you use would make it much more clear to the person you are mad at or debating with. 

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Avoiding drama is all about compromise. Yes you might disagree with someone to the point they make you angry but, at times you have to agree to disagree.

If you think you are better than someone and show it then normally drama starts. It's better to be more helpful to others and not be a show off...even if you are better at sport for example or get better grades.

Insulting others wont help either. Respect others believes, actions, style/image and where they come from. You never know how hard they have life. People tend to hide a lot of themselves and past and taking the mick normally provokes argument and tension. 

Not many people do this but, trying to avoid drama you have to avoid being heavily critical about someone. 

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 Don't poke fun, criticize, insult or get angry and shout at people when you disagree/ try and get your own way. Then you are more likely to avoid a lot of drama in life. 

Even if you dislike how someone is acting you don't need to shout and get all defensive just calmly say to them not to act that way in a way that don't offend anyone. If I make sense.

How to Look Great in a Pencil Skirt

The Pencil Skirt was a hit a few years ago, but today you can still make the pencil skirt look great! Solid and bright, bold colours make the skirt one to wear today. It is quite a simple look yet it shows positivity and is just calling for some fun!

The Vibrant Pencil Skirt: 1) Cobalt Pencil Skirt, Glamorous; 2) Mint Sequin Pencil Skirt,Topshop; 3) Tomato Leather Zip Detail Skirt, Miss Selfridge; 5) Yellow Asymmetric Peplum Skirt,River Island. For more, visit: www.femside.com

Pencil skirts in vibrant colours are fun to wear! Brighten up any dull office day. Just look at those colours. How bright and fun! 

Unlike the Skater Skirt for 2014, the Pencil Skirt should be styled, 'solid with solid.' Pair a solid top with your solid skirt and add a cute clutch and necklace in addition.

These skirts are really jolly to wear and I can't wait to try one for the spring/summer season! As I figure out a shirt to pair with my skirt, maybe I will link a picture in the comments of myself and my look. So, be sure to stay tuned! 

Have any questions? Need help with anything? Be sure to comment. We would like to help you. Have something you would like to say? We love to hear positive feedback! Thanks. :) 

This is for people who think they're weird. Maybe because they are picked on/bullied or no in the popular group. Even for those who wonder if their quirky like behaviour or action is "weird".

If you think you are weird then you probably are not….it is when you do things that you find normal and everyone around you finds weird….then well you might be weird.

saying “I’m weird” is not actually being weird it is more like stating what I said or did you may not like but doesn't mean you are an ab-normal person everyday. Only that moment.

Nobody should change themselves unless they are hurting themselves by how they act or feel like changing in anyway will make a positive difference in life, not because people around you pressure you to change.

Lace sock are the new girly thing.

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There is something unfashionable about the socks and sandal look but, the socks with heel look works really effectively. I guess it depends on what type of shoe you go for.
The lace sock however remarks to be delicate and makes a shoe more comfortable to wear.
The vintage type of style works best for this type of sock. That's just my opinion. Not dissing the goth/emo lace sock look that can create amazing combinations of clothing.

The whole "socks in sandals" look is seen as a fashion don't, right. Switch the sock to a lace one and you have a very girly look  and can work with a sandal too, just not in a flip flop or on the beach.

If you're a goth, indie kid, vintage etc you can add a lace sock to your everyday look and it will not stick out as if you've added a lace scrunchies to your leg. It will compliment the look. It all depends how many patterns and other lace elements are in the outfit.

I'm always reminded by the childhood white socks with the band of lace on top when I see lace topped socks. Like these:

Then again they are becoming very stylish to wear in a heel shoe. They're pretty for evening decoration in an outfit.